A Problem That Recurs Isn't a Communication Failure. It's a Detection Failure.
By Momar Lissa Ndiaye ("MLN"), Founder & CEO, weyoga Inc.
When the same problem comes up again and again, the default explanation is a communication failure — somebody isn't listening, isn't explaining clearly, isn't hearing the other person. This diagnosis is comforting because it's fixable with better technique. It's also, in most recurring-problem cases, not the actual failure.
Communication failures are failures of transmission — the message existed, but didn't land. A detection failure is different in kind: the underlying pattern was never accurately identified by either party in the first place, so there was no correct message to transmit. You cannot communicate your way out of a problem neither person has actually diagnosed, no matter how skilled the communication.
This is why "we just need to communicate better" so often fails on the second, third, and fourth attempt at the same conversation — each attempt improves the transmission of an inaccurate diagnosis, which produces a clearer, better-articulated version of the wrong conclusion.
Fixing a detection failure requires a different intervention than fixing a communication failure — not better phrasing, but better recognition of what's actually recurring, before any conversation about it even starts.
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Momar Lissa Ndiaye ("MLN") is the Founder & CEO of weyoga Inc., a Delaware company. — weyoga.ai · mln@weyoga.ai