What Happens in Your Dating Life Might Also Be Happening at Work
Have you ever noticed that the thing you do when you're dating might be the exact thing you do at work? Someone you're dating takes six hours to text back — suddenly you're analyzing punctuation. Your boss says, "can we talk tomorrow?" Same thing. You replay the email. You wonder what you did. You prepare for twelve possible conversations. Apparently, "I don't know what they mean" is your full-time occupation.
What did you do next, across the last three times you felt unsure where you stood?
But notice what's actually repeating. It's not the person. It's the uncertainty. You don't know where you stand, so you analyze, check, prepare, try to get certainty. And the second you get an answer, you feel better. Until the next unknown thing happens.
Try this: think about the last three times you felt unsure where you stood — one in a relationship, one at work, and one somewhere else. Don't compare the situations. Compare what you did next.
That's where the pattern usually gets interesting.
Ori looks at your past to see your pattern — not to hold it against you, but to reveal it to you. There are two kinds of patterns: a hidden pattern is the one you haven't spotted yet, still running quietly underneath your choices. A recognition pattern is the moment it becomes visible — when you finally see it clearly enough to do something different. Ori's job is helping you move from one to the other. People repeat themselves more than they think. Almost nothing happens only once.
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