Why You Can See Everyone Else's Pattern Except Your Own
Give me ten minutes with your friend's relationship and I will have opinions. I'll see the pattern immediately. "Oh, he only calls when he needs something." "You're doing all the work." "You keep making excuses for him." Obviously. Very obvious. Until it's me.
What would you tell your best friend if this were happening to them?
Because when it's your life, you have all the context. You know what happened before. You know what they said last Tuesday. You know what they meant. Or at least you think you do. So the whole thing makes sense from inside it.
Try borrowing the perspective you give everyone else. The next time you're completely convinced you're right, ask: what would I tell my best friend if this were happening to them? You don't have to follow your own advice. Just listen to the answer.
Sometimes the outside perspective you give other people is the perspective you can't access when you're inside your own pattern.
Ori looks at your past to see your pattern — not to hold it against you, but to reveal it to you. There are two kinds of patterns: a hidden pattern is the one you haven't spotted yet, still running quietly underneath your choices. A recognition pattern is the moment it becomes visible — when you finally see it clearly enough to do something different. Ori's job is helping you move from one to the other. People repeat themselves more than they think. Almost nothing happens only once.
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