Why You Keep Attracting One-Sided Relationships
Do you ever look at a relationship and realize — wait, why am I doing basically everything? You initiate. You check in. You make the plans. You explain. You accommodate. And then eventually you're exhausted and wondering why they aren't giving more.
What do you automatically do when someone gives less?
Sometimes the pattern isn't only that someone gives less. It's what you automatically do when they give less. Do you compensate? Do you try harder? Do you tell yourself they're just busy? Do you become even more available? Because if doing more temporarily makes the relationship feel okay again, that behavior gets reinforced.
So next time you notice the imbalance, don't immediately ask "how do I get them to give more?" Ask instead: what do I automatically do when someone gives less?
That answer might tell you more about your pattern than their behavior does.
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