Why You Keep Avoiding Your Own Decisions
There's a difference between asking for advice and asking someone else to make your decision for you. You ask five people. Everyone gives you a different answer. So naturally, you ask six.
What are you actually hoping they'll take off your shoulders?
Sometimes you're genuinely missing information. But sometimes the real problem is that making the decision means owning the outcome — so giving the decision to someone else feels safer. Whatever happens, you can think: "well, they told me to."
Next time you're about to ask for another opinion, ask: what am I actually hoping they'll take off my shoulders? If it's information, get information. If it's responsibility for the decision, that's something different.
You can listen to other people without handing them the steering wheel.
Ori looks at your past to see your pattern — not to hold it against you, but to reveal it to you. There are two kinds of patterns: a hidden pattern is the one you haven't spotted yet, still running quietly underneath your choices. A recognition pattern is the moment it becomes visible — when you finally see it clearly enough to do something different. Ori's job is helping you move from one to the other. People repeat themselves more than they think. Almost nothing happens only once.
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