Why You Keep Looking for an Answer From Someone Who Can't Give You One
You know what's exhausting? Trying to get certainty from someone who keeps giving you ambiguity. You ask what they want. They say they don't know. You ask again. They give you a slightly different answer. So you analyze the wording, the timing, the emoji, the punctuation. At this point you're basically doing forensic linguistics.
Are you looking for information, or trying to make uncertainty go away?
And sometimes the problem isn't that you haven't asked the right question. It's that you don't like the answer you already have. Uncertainty makes you uncomfortable, so you ask again because asking gives you a little relief. But then the uncertainty comes back.
Next time, ask: am I looking for information, or am I trying to make uncertainty go away? Because if the information isn't changing, asking again probably won't change the reality.
Sometimes someone's uncertainty is information too.
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