Why You Keep Trying to Control the Outcome
Some people don't like uncertainty. They like to turn uncertainty into a full-time job. You plan. You check. You prepare for every possibility. You send the follow-up. Then another follow-up. And somehow you still don't know what's going to happen.
Is this something you can actually influence, or are you doing something because you don't like not knowing?
Control can feel incredibly calming. For a moment. Because doing something feels better than sitting with not knowing. But sometimes the more you control, the more things you find that need controlling.
So ask: is this something I can actually influence, or am I doing something because I don't like not knowing? That's a very different question. You don't have to become passive.
You just want to know when you're taking action, and when you're using action to escape uncertainty.
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