Why You Keep Trying to Fix Things That Aren't Yours to Fix
Some people see a problem and think: "that's not my problem." And some people see a problem and think: "excellent, mine now." Someone is upset — you fix it. Someone is struggling — you jump in. Someone makes a bad decision — you try to rescue them. And when nobody takes your advice, you're exhausted.
Is this actually yours to fix?
Sometimes fixing isn't really about helping. Sometimes fixing helps you get rid of your own discomfort. If they're okay, you're okay. If the problem is solved, you can relax.
So next time you feel that urge to step in, ask: is this actually mine to fix? And if the answer is no: what am I afraid will happen if I don't? That question can reveal the part of the pattern that's actually yours.
You can care about someone without taking responsibility for their entire life.
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